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 cocoplus5nuts (original poster member #45796) posted at 1:07 AM on Thursday, February 12th, 2026

My H is retiring soon and will be losing his employee life insurance. He says he's going to continue to work for another 10-15 years. He's been advised to get a 10 year term policy for 10 times his annual salary. He was told life insurance is for replacing lost income, not covering liquid debts like mortgages and car payments.

According to a few different longevity calculators I've used, his life expectancy is 81-83. Mine is 75. If he works another 15 years, he'll only be 70.

That got me thinking that maybe he doesn't need life insurance at all. If he dies before me, I will get his pension which will be abput 82k per year, his 401(k) ($350k), his social security, and possibly at least part of his VA disability. On top of that, I have a 401(k) (about 70k), an inherited IRA from my mother (350+k), and will inherit whatever is left of my dad's investments. We have 2 houses and 5 vehicles, all of which could be sold if I were in dire straits for well over $1 million.

I don't see why I would need to replace his lost income. All of our kids except one are adults. The youngest is 14, so only 4 years until he'll be an adult. I don't need to live lavishly. I just need enough to pay the bills and eat without worry.

Is life insurance necessary?

I'm the BP

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